Ruining a friendship by dating


29-May-2020 18:15

So my college roommate's childhood friend lives with us and I have known her for several years.

I guess I've been spending a lot of time around her, I'm male, that I realized we connect so well together.

Being passive-aggressive is what makes these situations so hard because no one knows what the other person is thinking and everyone jumps to conclusions.

Being upfront and honest is the best policy because it leaves room to discuss what everyone wants and puts everything on the table.

I usually say something like "Hey , I really value our friendship, and I would never want to jeopardize that, but I am interested in being more than just friends with you." You establish you're interested and by being open and direct you create a tone where she can be open and direct in return.

I've asked out several close friends of mine this way, some have said yes, some have said no, all of them have remained my friend.

“Sometimes these dominant traits we love in a person and that drew us in [as friends] becomes the thing we don’t like anymore," adds Di Donato. They're cute, they're nice to you, and you can trust them.

But there's so much more to a healthy romantic relationship than just feeling secure.“There should be some element of sexual attraction or romantic desire," says Dr. "And even if that’s there, there may not be enough for a healthy, stable, romantic partnership.” She also goes on to mention the importance of shared goals and parallel life plans – dating someone who feels "safe" can backfire when you realize they're not as motivated or socially active as you.4. Wavering a little is perfectly normal if you both value your friendship and really don't want to mess it up.

I'm not so good with asking her out nor am I sure if she is interested in dating in the first place. I know that she is moving to her friends house since she's going to graduate school so I'm not going to ask her until then.Make sure you have the right kind of friendship for a relationship.



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