Pakistani and american dating
As a mother-in-law in Pakistan, she also holds the divine right of telling you exactly what she thinks of your relationship with your husband (her son first) and will offer all kinds of unsolicited advice, whether you want it or not. Of course, you must never let him feel like you are unhappy because then he will get hurt and being blinded by the pain of the ‘unfair pressure’ you put on him, will be left with no choice but to divorce you – possibly via a text saying, And tadaa, you’re divorced. To marry this highly eligible bachelor you must impress him. Apparently they never had any of those things before his highness met you. You, dear ladies, will be his property and he will not ‘allow’ you to hang out with male friends (only immodest girls do that).
It is just part and parcel of the legacy of being a Pakistani mother-in-law. No, not with your good looks, charm or personality, this pauper… But don’t take this lightly at all, there can, and have been, huge fights over dowry; sometimes, in a rage of greed they burn you or even kill you for not bringing that last toothpick left in your house! You will have to live with over a dozen other people in a small, cramped house. Not only do you live with his parents, you share space with his three other brothers and their families. Do not pester him into letting you go for a movie with your friends because this may result in him calling you all sorts of names, from dogs and cats to mothers and fathers – or, he will go crying to his mother, who will sympathise with all her heart and this little tête-à-tête will result in him texting you, 6.
And you CANNOT rely on him as a single source, and whether it's hard for you or not, if you want a solid perspective on the Pakistani culture, you must look at critical viewpoints of Pakistan and Islam. So, let's look at this objectively: You're on here, which means you need third-party confirmation whether or not go ahead with this, the relationship seems to be rushed, you don't know much about his culture, and you're much older than him.
If he doesn't like that idea, then you've got another big red flag, because it's close-minded. This really doesn't look good, and if I were you, I'd pull the plug.
Don’t expect him to wake up in the middle of the night and change diapers — that is a lowly job meant only for wives to do. You will be expected to act in a proper and dignified manner at all times.
Ethnicity really doesn't factor in this, and sure, at least one woman on here has told me that younger men and older women can date because it happens a lot the other way around, but that still doesn't change what happens.
Obviously, if it offends ghosts it would offend his family and that would be a grave sin. Oh you’ve always been like this and he knew you before he married you?