Dating a borderline personality woman
You will also be able to reinforce better, productive behaviors. They yell, threaten suicide (and are sometimes serious), accuse, blame, and are highly defensive.
This might increase if you do not emotionally respond to them; that is, if you do not hop on their emotional rollercoaster and get upset as well.
For example, if your loved one controls or manipulates you into handing over your entire paycheck so he can use it to buy a new car, you can say, "I am no longer going to give you money.
You need to earn money so you can buy the things you want." A person with BPD does not have the same understanding about emotions and lacks coping mechanisms to manage them efficiently.
Suicide attempts are a common feature of the disorder.
Even if you hear it a lot, all threats of suicide need to be taken seriously.
However, it could work for some people with BPD, especially if they seek compliments. Since a person with BPD has low self-esteem, you could be doing some good.Still set your limits and stick to them, but in a loving and nonjudgmental way.