Benefits of dating a muslim man
On the flipside, if you like someone, let them know! You don’t have to kiss 100 frogs before you find your prince…It’s okay to be picky, because it only takes one good date to turn into one great relationship.So for now, I’ve put a pause on actively meeting people.The Muslim dating community is not immune to sleazebags. If the guy starts initiating sext-like messages (10pm text — “I bet you’ve got a great imagination ;) Maybe you could help mine…”) you better believe I won’t progress things with this individual.It shows me a lot when a guy is not willing to wait to approach this boundary before a serious relationship leading to marriage has taken off.If the first three things that come into your head when your hear the word “men” are: they all suck, all the good ones are taken, there’s no one out there for me or any other variation of that, please, do yourself a favor and STOP DATING!Note to readers: This weblog entry on official advice to women not to marry Muslim men has, to my surprise and delight, become the springboard for an intense, heated, and personal dialogue between non-Muslim women romantically involved with Muslim men.I’m a lot more selective now, and have faith that the one meant for me will cross my path. Don’t downplay yourself, your accomplishments, or your hopes and dreams.If the guy in question can’t handle the fact that you bring more to the table (on paper at least), he’s not for you.
Of course, have restraint and use discretion when revealing too much about yourself on a first date, but don’t put on a front either.It’s easy to become jaded and cynical, especially after meeting so many people, but know that ultimately, it doesn’t serve you.If you don’t take this process too seriously and focus on yourself first and foremost, you’ll keep your natural optimism and positivity intact.Note to guys who want to pursue a #girlboss: Every woman searching for “the One” wants companionship, don’t let her success intimidate you if you really like her, but know that in order to keep her interest, you should be running towards your dreams and goals, too.11.
Don’t take yourself too seriously and stay positive.Small world, these two knew each other and the guy I rejected told the new guy that I didn’t really reject him and he still had hope.